How To Find Love
There are 4 important persons in your life. How
many have you found?
1st - yourself,
2nd - one you love most,
3rd - one who love you most,
4th - one you spend the rest of your life with.
Firstly you'll meet the 1 you love most, and learn how love feels.
Because you know how love feels, so you can find the person who
loves you most. When you've experienced the feeling of loving
others and being loved, you'll then know what it is you need most.
Then you will find the person who is most suitable for you, to
be able to spend the rest of your life with.
Sadly, in real life, these 3 people are usually not the same
person.
The one you love most doesn't love you. The one, who love you
most, is never the one you love most. And the one you spend your
life with, is never the one you love most or the one who love
you most.
He/she is just the person who happens to be at the right place
at the right time.
Which person are you in other people's life?
No person will purposely have a change of heart.
At the point in time when he loves you, he/she really loves u.
But when he/she doesn't love you anymore, he/she really doesn't
love you anymore.
When he/she loves you, he/she can't pretend that he/she doesn't.
same goes, when he/she loves you no more, there's no way he/she
can pretend he/she loves u. When a person doesn't love you and
wants to leave u. you must ask yourself if you still love
him/her, If you also don't love him/her anymore, do not keep him/her
just to save your pride. If you still love him/her, you should
wish him/her happiness, and hope that he/she will be with the
one he/she loves most, not stop him/her from it. If you stop him/her
from finding true happiness with the one he/she loves, it shows
you already don't love him/her, And if you don't love him/her,
what rights do you have to blame him/her for a change of heart?
Love is not possessive, if you like the moon, you
can't just take it down and put it in your basin, But the moonlight
still shines upon you. In other words, when you love a person,
you can use another method of possessing the person. Let him/her
become a permanent memory in you life. If you really love a person,
you must love him/her for what he/she is. Love him/her for his/her
good points, and the bad, You can't wish for him/her to become
like what you like him/her to be just because you love him/her.
If he/she can't change to become what you like him/her to be,
you don't love him/her anymore. When you really love a person,
you cannot find a reason why you love him/her, You only know that
no matter when and where, good mood or bad mood, you will wish
to have this person be with you.
Real love is when two people can go through the toughest problems
without asking for promises or listing criteria. In a relationship,
you have to put in effort and give in at times, not always be
on the receiving end. Being away from each other is a type of
test, If the relationship isn't strong, then you can only admit
defeat. Real love will never become hate.
When two people are in love, They love to ask each other to swear,
to make promises. Why do they ask each other to swear and promise?
Because they don't trust each other,
they don't trust their lover. These swear and promises are useless;
Till the sky falls, till the ocean dry, my love for you will never
change! We all know that the sky will never fall; the ocean will
never dry, Even if it does happen, are we still alive by then?
Be careful when making promises; don't make promises that you
cannot keep. Swear by things that can never happen, because it
can never happen, so no harm just saying it casually. Remember?
Swearing by things that can never happen are the most touching!!?
In a relationship, what you say is one thing, but what you do
is another;
The 1 saying, doesn't believe; the 1 listening, also doesn't believe.
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